The
dismantling of 86 years of a life well-spent is a long, thoughtful
process. The past thirty days have been filled with my big brother by my side, sifting through our history and our
mother's before us - an irreplaceable experience.
While
my life is imprinted on beautiful Vashon Island in the Puget Sound, my roots
are deeply planted in La Jolla, California.
Growing up as a third generation La Jollan, I have a deep love for the
once, sleepy little village by the sea.
My maternal grandfather was Postmaster of the La Jolla Post Office; my
mother’s La Jolla High School history teacher was my principal; my physical
education instructor coached my oldest son.
Back in the day, a stroll down Girard Avenue was met with familiar faces
and warm greetings – now there is but a small contingent of “old La
Jollans” left.
My dad likes to tell the story of mid-1950, when one could buy a large lot a block from the beach for $1500.00. These
same lots, some with the original ‘50’s homes on them intermixed with pint-size
mansions, now command seven figure prices.
My
grandparents, practical, family-oriented Norwegians, built their home in La
Jolla Hermosa next to Windansea Beach, now a very tony address Gregory Peck
once called home. My folks built their
first home in Bird Rock, a tiny beach community just south of La Jolla
Hermosa. Ten years later, they purchased
a corner lot on the cliffs overlooking La Jolla Shores. This is where my dad built my mother's “dream house”. There were very few homes on the hillside at
the time.
The few neighborhood kids all ran in a pack.
We played on the native landscape among downed ancient Oak trees, barrel
cactus, fossilized sea life, skunks and rattlesnakes. It was an incredible place and time.
When
the University of California at San Diego broke ground this all rapidly changed. Our once wild and exclusive playground became
a sea of custom-built homes, bringing astronauts and academics, concert pianists
and oceanographers with them, enriching my life experience even further.
My
recent homecoming, though filled with sadness, is really quite
bittersweet. For the faded memories of
my youth seem crystal clear today – with them comes great joy and profound
gratitude for the bountiful beginnings of a wonderful life.
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View of La Jolla Shores and the hillside where my family home is located...
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La Jolla Cove breakwater...
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La Jolla Cove "Children's Pool" - now home to the very odiferous seals and pelicans... |